Confidently Dating Women™

Our Confidently Dating Women™ method for men is about meeting women in your everyday life. Think about meeting her at the grocery store, shopping mall, during your lunch break at work, while hanging out with friends at an event, practising some sports or hobby you enjoy, or when taking a walk in the park. So it is mostly what is commonly called 'day-game' or 'street-game'.

You don't need to go out deep into the night (so called club-game). Going out every other night may have been fine when you were 20 years old, but as you reach your thirties, forties or fifties you can better spend your energy elsewhere.

We enhance your lead list of fresh new pussy from day-game with a bit of online dating (from online dating apps such as Tinder and Bumble) and social circle game (meeting women through mutual acquaintances and at get-togethers with friends).

We have used our dating method for men from as young as 20 years old to 65 years old. On average our clients are in their late twenties to early fifties.

The program works especially well for guys and men who have had a committed monogamous relationship before and want to switch to a more free sex and dating lifestyle. And for guys who don't have a lot of time to spend: We're all busy working on our mission as the primary goal; women come secondary to us.

Most clients live already on their own, have a stable or growing income and have their basic necessities met (food, shelter etc.). If you still live with your parents, then first move out and only then come back to us.

Yes, this works in most western countries (Europe, United States, Canada, Australia) and probably a lot of other culture countries as well. In The Netherlands most women are sober and don't need a man to live very well, so the training grounds are here more difficult than some other countries where women are much more feminine and appreciative of men.

The essence of the Confidently Dating Women™ program is to start talking to women you meet in your everyday roundabouts. In your street, at the shopping mall, while waiting for the bus, at the airport, during lunch break, at a social event or festival etc. Based on your locality it may mean that you have to travel a bit more (in The Netherlands we live quite dense so everything is within short-distance).

We have applied the method before in our dating tours to for example Miami, Prague, Sofia, Belgrade, Krakow and Buenos Aires, which proves that the dating method also works outside The Netherlands. Our main limitation abroad was the language barrier; because we speak Dutch and English, but if you can speak Spanish for example a whole additional world of ladies open up to you. And in case we don't speak the local language then body language is our greatest friend to get laid haha.

There are a few oppressive countries where dating, discussing sex and the practice ethical non-monogamy is restricted or forbidden. So always check your local law. We don't promote our work in those countries. Our best advice for when you're living in any of those sexually highly restricted countries is to move to a more favorable other country.

No. In most western countries it is perfectly fine to start talking to random women. We teach a method without lying or deceit, and we also don't pay for the women either. It is all based on mutual consent and of course adhering to any age-of-consent laws. We'll guide you a bit on which women are most safe to approach without having dangers of repercussions (e.g. that hot police woman on duty that thinks you were harassing her).

There are a few oppressive countries where dating, discussing sex and the practice ethical non-monogamy is restricted or forbidden. So always check your local law. We don't promote our work in those countries. Our best advice for when you're living in any of those sexually highly restricted countries is to move to a more favorable other country.

PlayMale is my pen name within the sex dating and erotic play realm. I am active in the scene of day/street game, sensual play (including mind-play) and erotic parties. As a master erotic hypnotist I also conduct research on the topic of female orgasms on command.

Since 2004 I've been involved in the so-called 'seduction-community' and 'pick-up artist' (PUA) scene. Together with 2 other bad-ass bros from The Netherlands we founded a dating coaching company and quickly became nationally known. We had a very successful no-nonsense dating coaching business that helped thousands of men become good with getting laid.

That dating advice company is now long gone, and I've been mostly working on very, very expensive business consultancy projects for big corporations since. But I held interest and involvement in self-development and in meeting, dating and having sex with women I find attractive. After a traditional long term relationship I am redesigning my life for freedom; which includes playful freedom with dating and sleeping with women.

My goal with the Confidently Dating Women™ book and the dating coaching is to help other men achieve that sexual freedom as well.

Yes, we also meet these kind of women. We have met women who even train other women how to best suck cock (no joke)! As long as the women in question go out of the house and show themselves in public then you can meet them. That's how we meet for example strippers, pole-dancers and photo models outside their work environment.

Although some of our dating coaches have experience with adult (sex) dating and kink/fetish, the focus is definitely not on sex dating or casual hookup sites. It may be perfectly fine to casually hook up with women or have one-night-stands, and via those channels you'll find it even easier to achieve that. But there's also a lot of cat fishing, advertisements for sex workers and fake profiles on those platforms.

Besides, in our program we focus on building longer relationships with women, that includes having sex. That means that you'll learn how to keep seeing her more often (when you like her of course).

For a man it is important to have money and sex in his life. At the same time we want to relax a bit so we don't focus on one-night-stands but on meeting, dating and repeatedly sleeping with women over a longer period of time. It's much more practical to have multiple fuck buddies, friends with benefits and a long term relationship, than having to go through the hassle of finding new one-night-stand ladies every damn day. The method will enable you to be able to choose the perfect dream woman out of your contacts for a long-term love relationship (that still includes also sex).

Sure. We're well known for our balls-of-steel guarantee at our workshops. And for the get-laid-guarantee at our international travel training programs. When you follow the steps laid out in the book, you may also find you in the same position of one of our best clients who followed the advice to the letter: marrying the woman of your dreams and having your 7 hot exes attend your wedding!

Anyway, one of the commercial television stations in The Netherlands covered a documentary about our approach. Here's a screenshot of that to give you an idea of the their interpretation of what to expect:

No. And you don't want to either when you've met your ex before you learned our method (that includes ethical non-monogamy). Because when you go back to your ex that means that you are unable to find a better woman than her, which is a wrong sign of weakness to re-enter a relationship with.

Your ex may come back to you instead out of jealousy. Because you are so busy meeting and sexing other women. Besides, you'll quickly forget about your ex when you are banging a more hot and more drama-free girl than your ex anyways.

Well as we don't spend money on women these type of women typically disqualify themselves from our system. On this site we neither offer any of those adult services (this is not a dating app or adult hookup service). You might find instead that all other women are eager to pay for your drinks and clean your house and cook for you as long as they can have regular sex for free with you.

You can still meet those sex workers, hookers, prostitutes and sugar-daddy girls outside their working environment. There you are no longer perceived as her customer and can talk to her like a regular person man-to-woman. Remind yourself that these women may look stunningly hot, but still will see a lot of other men (their customers) and have sex with those men for money. On the plus side the quality ones often are quite keen on having safe sex and regularly test themselves for STDs (which is a good thing in my opinion); may require regular testing also from you. If you can't deal with that, then don't get into the hassle of dating such a woman.

We had our time being on public state television, appeared in commercial broadcasts, interviewed on radio, starred in well-known Dutch and Belgian magazines, and even made it into Playboy Magazine and Penthouse. But nowadays our dating coaches remain more under the radar to keep away from the prying feminist eyes who'd love to see most men as dick-less supplicating slaves to their princess lifestyles. We get busy helping you as man confidentially get better with laying women. All the news and media interviews were just a distraction for our main mission to create an elite group of men who eat pussy for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

In the old days we used to hang out with a lot of famous Pick Up Artists (PUA's). Some of them are still quite active in the scene; you may know about them because we shared time in workshops and collaborations; since then they have developed their endeavors further. We won't mention names here but we'll show you some pictures after you've signed up for the e-mail insiders newsletter. Feel free to check out who these other master seducers are and decide for yourself which style fits best (no pun intended). Anyway we are now more moving towards associating and hanging out with sensual, sexual and erotic play women. I don't know about you but I'd rather hang out with a group of horny women than a bunch of male wingmen.

No, you can buy the book Confidently Dating Women™ from several well-known online stores such as Amazon and Google Play Books. However, when you have not enlisted yourself on this website we won't keep in touch with you and you'll miss out on the latest updates and insights on how to get better with women. Also, we've created a few private groups for like-minded men like you that you can only join after having subscribed to the free e-mail newsletter. And of course we send any discounts to our training programs or early announcements only to our e-mail list subscribers…

Yes, the Confidently Dating Women™ can be ordered on Amazon and Google Play Books. It is for sale in limited copy from February 14^th, 2025 (Valentine's Day) onward. This is because I want to be able to respond to any questions you guys have and because my time is limited I cannot have lots of men buy the book and then raise questions. Quality over quantity. Soon we will make the book available also on other popular book stores.