Confidently Dating Women™

Seduce attractive single women anywhere for relationship that includes sex within 4 hours of seeing her

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Step-by-step dating guide for men from approach to having a relationship with her

Dear male friend,

How awesome would your dating and relationship life be when you've gained the confidence and skills to approach, date & seduce attractive women you spot in your daily life for a relationship that includes sex?

Single men over 25 from the Western world, get to know…

…and this all for very little (or no) money and within four hours of meeting her.

 

Herman - "From first kiss to sex in just a split second"

Dear dating coaches,

I think I've been seriously practicing your material for about a month now and tonight I had my first real success. Last week I also had success, but not with the sex at my place so to say (didn't want that either) But now I finally walked the full path all the way. I must admit that there are various exceptions to the way to get her over to your place up to having sex.

From time to time I had tried to kiss her, but it was too early for her. Eventually I started to act laid back and after an hour I noticed she became more relaxed. Later at my place we watched a movie in my bed and halfway through the movie started kissing. A second later we also had sex 😃! I didn't need to dim the lights, just going wild with two floodlights aimed at my bed!

Anyway, I continue enjoying my evening! She wanted to be at home in time today so she could study tomorrow! Love it now I can just do my own thing again!

Greetings,
Herman

If you are recovering from a long term monogamous relationship with a woman or when you are stranded in the endless desert of dry spells as a single mature man, then when would now be the moment that you decide to leave behind a life of mediocre (or no) sex and average boring ugly women with drama and issues?

As a formerly retired no-nonsense dating coach from the sex capital of the world Amsterdam, The Netherlands (Europe), I find more and more men all over the Western world (Europe, United States, Canada, Australia) struggling with regaining their masculine power in a princess-conditioned world.

Sure with our earlier coaching we helped thousands of men nationally and internationally regain their power as a man, and bag those hotties (some of our coaching clients even brought home 2 hot twin sisters for having threesomes in our dating workshop villas).

Two attractive young women kiss the same lucky guy
This could have been you

Though reality is that most men all over the world have never been properly initiated how to date & seduce women they encounter in their daily lives, other than to kiss her ass and hope she will like him in return (which never happens of course).

You might have noticed that your current 'nice and decent civil guy'-approach to getting laid with women DOES NOT WORK.

So that's exactly what we are gonna help you change into a bad-ass confident alpha male.

Giacomo - "I fucked her in the backyard like a true alpha-male"

Already one success story for today: I fucked a chick at my place that initially had some resistance (I already had sex with her one time before). Using the 1, 1-2, 1-2-3 method I told her at a certain point that it was way too hot. So I was getting us some water pistols and she had 1 minute to completely get undressed. She immediately got naked.

After a bit of play I fucker her in the backyard like a true alpha-male (It was really wild, my testosterone was super high, I didn't have sex yesterday, and I like Belgian women more). Then I dragged her into my bedroom where I got her into an erotic body stocking, while she had to remain her eyes closed. Afterwards she told me that she came twice, and after some more little action I send her home (which was fine to her).

I called another woman that I only had kissed thus far, but I noticed by her voice that she was really longing for seeing me again. I meet her tomorrow afternoon, because tomorrow evening I already receive another woman at my place.

Tonight I go out for dinner at a cheap restaurant with my ex girlfriend. I don't have any food at home left. I called her. Once I broke her hearth, so there is a lot of resistance from her.

Tonight I make time for my exercise.

Ciao,
Giacomo

P.S. I was late in replying to you, because in the last week I was having sex with 5 different women. There is another girl waiting for me right now naked in my bed. Sometimes the situation was that when one woman left, I had less than 1 hour to clean up my house before the next woman came to visit me for sex…

 

Become a bad-ass confident and playful alpha male
Go from… …to this
Seeing 0 (or just 1) women per year Seeing multiple women every week, having options
Staying in the friend zone Actually date those women for a romantic relationship that includes sex
You kiss her ass all the time She makes you happy (not only with giving you random blowjobs)
Endlessly chasing women Women chase you to meet up
You buy her gifts & pay all her drinks She gets you gifts and she pays your drinks
She is 'not in the mood', so you have no sex today Fine! You have sex with her hot female friend instead
The woman dictates the terms of the relationship You decide on how the relationship looks like (mutual consent)
Cheating, lying, drama, deceit Congruence, honesty, care-free and authentic
Being a beta-walk-all-over-guy A playful alpha male that respects his boundaries
Falling in the standard marriage trap (you'll be screwed financially) Have a prenup (easily get rid of her and without trouble when things no longer work out for you)

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Break free from that lone prison where porn stars on your screen are the only women that get naked for you

I feel so sick about it that you may have the same bugging irritation why you just can't seem to meet hot attractive women and successfully seduce them for sex quickly, cheaply and repeatedly.

You'll want to break free from a beta-male prison of depression, doubt, anxiety and feelings of helplessness when it comes to having women wanting to be in your life eager to fuck you on a recurring basis.

Because all the 'average guys' (or better: more than 95% of men) seem to have is sheer luck with getting laid with any lady at all!

That's bad, and that means he is not in control of his dating and sex life.

However, similar as you as a man get horny from seeing a hot girl... women also have their triggers to get hot for you and start chasing you for sex!

As a master erotic hypnotist and expert adult player I've jet to find a girl that would NOT be interested in getting to know me better when I told her a female friend went fully orgasmic on my voice command... captured on video camera... within a few minutes of talking with me!

I mean, once you discover that there are enough good looking women eager to just jump on your lap and start kissing you, or even dive down head-first into your lap to give you a spontaneous well-deserved blowjob, you'll get instant confidence in dating women my bro!

But… you have never been taught to confidently date women in school, not at work, nor from your friends and neither from your childhood upbringing.

And all the Hollywood movies you may have seen also are worthless in showing you how to get laid in the real world (they typically show a poor guy doing a lot of work to 'win her over' and supplicating to her - WRONG!).

Suhail - "Now I have more fun with women"

Hello Masters that have changed my life!

After I attended your seduce women workshop my life literally changed for the better. Now I have more fun with women. I don't know how I have to thank you for this but anyway hereby: Guys, THANKS A LOT!

God bless you all!!

We keep in touch.

Greetings,
Suhail

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You hold wrong beliefs & lack proper training on dating women for relationships with sex

Imagine the assumption that you have to do a lot of work as a man to try to win over the heart of the woman you fancy is a totally false belief.

It is once you discover how easy dating is and have women in your life that want to see you for some 1-on-1 action in the bedroom.

El - "Once I started touching her she wanted to book free flights for me"

Hahaha, I'll be the Average Frustrated Chump for some time to come man 😉

I got her number and also a couple more.

I received messages from 2 girls now, so let's see where that leads to! Thanks.

Ohw… about Kino… dude she immediately started to feel my face. For the rest it was all good, my hands, all the way, not a problem at all.

She is a flight attendant and she said she can book flights for free. So when I fly the next time with her air line than I can let her know. Kino this 😉

Anyway, I had an amazing evening at the workshop and I'll definitely go again to that bar. Never in my life I have seen so many beautiful chicks and so many male dorks as 'competition' bwahaha.

El

Could this be something for you?

Confidence is about your mind (what you think), about your body (physicality and vibe) and about the actions which you take.

When you play the numbers game well and improve the quality of your interactions in your dating life, you will become too busy having sex to keep up with handle all those hotties.

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A new chance to get back in control of your dating and sex life

Know this.

I will be re-releasing the successful dating method I've developed over 18 years ago to train men to become womanizers. But this time the book will be offered globally worldwide and translated to English language!

Book cover
Confidently Dating Women™ - Fully Revised 18th Anniversary Edition

Earlier editions of this book…

One of my previous clients who actually followed up the instructions by the letter still thanks me to this day for teaching him the method that led to his new wife and 7 same-named hot exes joining his marvelous wedding.

Not saying that you should get legally married for the state (bad idea!) but the point is this stuff works to get a shitload of sexually interested women stick around wherever you go!

Joost - "I rate you guys 9 out of 10 stars!"

Hello PlayMale,

Thanks for your extensive feedback and I wish you and the other dating coaches a happy new year!

I choose for you guys because you really practice for real to approach and talk to women on the street and in bars etc. With you as dating coaches I find a water oasis in my dried out dessert of a non-existing love live. Meanwhile your competitors are still practising a rain dance. During the workshop from you as dating coaching I made a lot of progress in getting tangible results (such as phone numbers, e-mail addresses, physical contact) while approaching and talking to women. One of the high marks of the workshop was the feeling that I got during the day that I don't need to be some kind of Brad Pitt or David Beckham to seduce cute women. To the contrary, it actually becomes easier because I am free to show up next to a cute woman and positively surprise her in a pleasant way.

Currently I don't have feedback to improve your workshop but I do notice that I have to 'translate' your strong masculine frame to my own personality. I am intuitive and sensitive to my feelings, and because of that I quickly get a bit tired and saturated by impressions when I talk to a lot of women after each other on the street and in bars. The advantage of this intuition is that I don't need to talk to most women to know whether they want something with me or not. I can especially use your approach with a lady that in her heart wants to meet a man, but in that regard I am more of a sniper guy than a cowboy that easily clears the whole alley or saloon of baddies with his pistol.

I can really recommend this work to my friends and I already did recommend your workshop to a friend of mine that is already in a relationship but wants to have more sex outside of that relationship. Additionally he can practice in approaching and talking to women with whom he would like to have this sex with.

I rate you guys a 9 out of 10, because the workshop is a both broad and well constructed, something I really find utility from!

Greetings and good luck with your work!

Joost

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Send me your most pressing current problem in meeting and dating women in your daily life

The Netherlands is as wet a country as you want those hot pussies to be. Hence I was rowing a boat on Dutch waters the other day and there is one thing I want to ask your help with (I'll do you a favor in return).

On Friday February 14th 2025 (Valentine's Day) I have released the instruction manual again how to get laid using confidence in your approach to meeting and dating women in your everyday life.

But… the book has been released on Amazon and Google Play Books in a limited edition copy plus the content will be fully improved and updated for fixing the current era of beta-pussyfication (weak men) we live in.

Tim - "I recommend you to first buy this book"

In this book all 3 Master Pick-Up Artist give you backstage insights to dating and they show every man how to approach and talk to the most beautiful women without any hesitation or fear.

Before you know it you're already in a nice conversation with a woman YOU wanted to get to know better and wanted to have sex with… on the same day!

I have to honestly admit… I myself NEVER dared to approach the hottest girls, but after buying this book - within just a few days I approached that one hot girl I fancied and she was positively surprised!

Do you want to be successful with women? Then I recommend you to first buy this book and after that just talk to any women you like! And of course sleep with that beauty on the same day…

Greetings,
Tim

As I'm continuously tweaking and improving the book and my vlogs on that, I want to make sure I cover any questions or concerns that you have about being able to confidently date women you desire.

For that find yourself leaving your details below and hit send.

After you have confirmed your e-mail (check your spam folder!), I will occasionally send you a few questions to check if I am really covering the answers you need for your situation.

Oh and of course you'll be one of those guys that will be granted the opportunity to obtain the dating method at the cheapest price ever and with the greatest give-away discount there will be. Because after the initial re-release on Amazon and Google Play Books at Friday February 14th 2025, the price will only go up.

As an up-front "Thank you!" for having the courage to come out of the shadows of beta male prison I'll send you the 10 Dating Tips FREE bonus report in advance.

See you on the other side!

Your bro friend and dating coach for Western single men over 25,

PlayMale

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Questions & answers

What kind of dating program for men is this?

Our Confidently Dating Women™ method for men is about meeting women in your everyday life. Think about meeting her at the grocery store, shopping mall, during your lunch break at work, while hanging out with friends at an event, practising some sports or hobby you enjoy, or when taking a walk in the park. So it is mostly what is commonly called 'day-game' or 'street-game'.

You don't need to go out deep into the night (so called club-game). Going out every other night may have been fine when you were 20 years old, but as you reach your thirties, forties or fifties you can better spend your energy elsewhere.

We enhance your lead list of fresh new pussy from day-game with a bit of online dating (from online dating apps such as Tinder and Bumble) and social circle game (meeting women through mutual acquaintances and at get-togethers with friends).

For what age of men is this dating program meant?

We have used our dating method for men from as young as 20 years old to 65 years old. On average our clients are in their late twenties to early fifties.

The program works especially well for guys and men who have had a committed monogamous relationship before and want to switch to a more free sex and dating lifestyle. And for guys who don't have a lot of time to spend: We're all busy working on our mission as the primary goal; women come secondary to us.

Most clients live already on their own, have a stable or growing income and have their basic necessities met (food, shelter etc.). If you still live with your parents, then first move out and only then come back to us.

Our oldest client before and after the dating coaching (and landing in bed with a woman half his age)

Does this dating method work outside The Netherlands (e.g. does it work also in my country?

Yes, this works in most western countries (Europe, United States, Canada, Australia) and probably a lot of other culture countries as well. In The Netherlands most women are sober and don't need a man to live very well, so the training grounds are here more difficult than some other countries where women are much more feminine and appreciative of men.

The essence of the Confidently Dating Women™ program is to start talking to women you meet in your everyday roundabouts. In your street, at the shopping mall, while waiting for the bus, at the airport, during lunch break, at a social event or festival etc. Based on your locality it may mean that you have to travel a bit more (in The Netherlands we live quite dense so everything is within short-distance).

We have applied the method before in our dating tours to for example Miami, Prague, Sofia, Belgrade, Krakow and Buenos Aires, which proves that the dating method also works outside The Netherlands. Our main limitation abroad was the language barrier; because we speak Dutch and English, but if you can speak Spanish for example a whole additional world of ladies open up to you. And in case we don't speak the local language then body language is our greatest friend to get laid haha.

There are a few oppressive countries where dating, discussing sex and the practice ethical non-monogamy is restricted or forbidden. So always check your local law. We don't promote our work in those countries. Our best advice for when you're living in any of those sexually highly restricted countries is to move to a more favorable other country.

A client from Belgium now is able to speak to random women on the street for dating

Do I have to do anything illegal?

No. In most western countries it is perfectly fine to start talking to random women. We teach a method without lying or deceit, and we also don't pay for the women either. It is all based on mutual consent and of course adhering to any age-of-consent laws. We'll guide you a bit on which women are most safe to approach without having dangers of repercussions (e.g. that hot police woman on duty that thinks you were harassing her).

There are a few oppressive countries where dating, discussing sex and the practice ethical non-monogamy is restricted or forbidden. So always check your local law. We don't promote our work in those countries. Our best advice for when you're living in any of those sexually highly restricted countries is to move to a more favorable other country.

Who is PlayMale?

PlayMale is my pen name within the sex dating and erotic play realm. I am active in the scene of day/street game, sensual play (including mind-play) and erotic parties. As a master erotic hypnotist I also conduct research on the topic of female orgasms on command.

Since 2004 I've been involved in the so-called 'seduction-community' and 'pick-up artist' (PUA) scene. Together with 2 other bad-ass bros from The Netherlands we founded a dating coaching company and quickly became nationally known. We had a very successful no-nonsense dating coaching business that helped thousands of men become good with getting laid.

That dating advice company is now long gone, and I've been mostly working on very, very expensive business consultancy projects for big corporations since. But I held interest and involvement in self-development and in meeting, dating and having sex with women I find attractive. After a traditional long term relationship I am redesigning my life for freedom; which includes playful freedom with dating and sleeping with women.

My goal with the Confidently Dating Women™ book and the dating coaching is to help other men achieve that sexual freedom as well.

Does this work with strippers, pole-dancers, models and other hot entertainment women?

Yes, we also meet these kind of women. We have met women who even train other women how to best suck cock (no joke)! As long as the women in question go out of the house and show themselves in public then you can meet them. That's how we meet for example strippers, pole-dancers and photo models outside their work environment.

Is this for adult sex dating and fetish/kink?

Although some of our dating coaches have experience with adult (sex) dating and kink/fetish, the focus is definitely not on sex dating or casual hookup sites. It may be perfectly fine to casually hook up with women or have one-night-stands, and via those channels you'll find it even easier to achieve that. But there's also a lot of cat fishing, advertisements for sex workers and fake profiles on those platforms.

Besides, in our program we focus on building longer relationships with women, that includes having sex. That means that you'll learn how to keep seeing her more often (when you like her of course).

For a man it is important to have money and sex in his life. At the same time we want to relax a bit so we don't focus on one-night-stands but on meeting, dating and repeatedly sleeping with women over a longer period of time. It's much more practical to have multiple fuck buddies, friends with benefits and a long term relationship, than having to go through the hassle of finding new one-night-stand ladies every damn day. The method will enable you to be able to choose the perfect dream woman out of your contacts for a long-term love relationship (that still includes also sex).

Does the dating program come with any guarantees?

Sure. We're well known for our balls-of-steel guarantee at our workshops. And for the get-laid-guarantee at our international travel training programs. When you follow the steps laid out in the book, you may also find you in the same position of one of our best clients who followed the advice to the letter: marrying the woman of your dreams and having your 7 hot exes attend your wedding!

Anyway, one of the commercial television stations in The Netherlands covered a documentary about our approach. Here's a screenshot of that to give you an idea of the their interpretation of what to expect:

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100% Get Laid Guarantee - From pickup line to phone number (source: Dutch TV documentary about our method)

Can I get my ex back?

No. And you don't want to either when you've met your ex before you learned our method (that includes ethical non-monogamy). Because when you go back to your ex that means that you are unable to find a better woman than her, which is a wrong sign of weakness to re-enter a relationship with.

Your ex may come back to you instead out of jealousy. Because you are so busy meeting and sexing other women. Besides, you'll quickly forget about your ex when you are banging a more hot and more drama-free girl than your ex anyways.

Can I date sex workers, hookers, prostitutes and sugar-daddy girls?

Well as we don't spend money on women these type of women typically disqualify themselves from our system. On this site we neither offer any of those adult services (this is not a dating app or adult hookup service). You might find instead that all other women are eager to pay for your drinks and clean your house and cook for you as long as they can have regular sex for free with you.

You can still meet those sex workers, hookers, prostitutes and sugar-daddy girls outside their working environment. There you are no longer perceived as her customer and can talk to her like a regular person man-to-woman. Remind yourself that these women may look stunningly hot, but still will see a lot of other men (their customers) and have sex with those men for money. On the plus side the quality ones often are quite keen on having safe sex and regularly test themselves for STDs (which is a good thing in my opinion); may require regular testing also from you. If you can't deal with that, then don't get into the hassle of dating such a woman.

Are you guys well-known celebrities?

We had our time being on public state television, appeared in commercial broadcasts, interviewed on radio, starred in well-known Dutch and Belgian magazines, and even made it into Playboy Magazine and Penthouse. But nowadays our dating coaches remain more under the radar to keep away from the prying feminist eyes who'd love to see most men as dick-less supplicating slaves to their princess lifestyles. We get busy helping you as man confidentially get better with laying women. All the news and media interviews were just a distraction for our main mission to create an elite group of men who eat pussy for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Some Dutch media appearances where our work featured

How are you different from other Pick Up Artists?

In the old days we used to hang out with a lot of famous Pick Up Artists (PUA's). Some of them are still quite active in the scene; you may know about them because we shared time in workshops and collaborations; since then they have developed their endeavors further. We won't mention names here but we'll show you some pictures after you've signed up for the e-mail insiders newsletter. Feel free to check out who these other master seducers are and decide for yourself which style fits best (no pun intended). Anyway we are now more moving towards associating and hanging out with sensual, sexual and erotic play women. I don't know about you but I'd rather hang out with a group of horny women than a bunch of male wingmen.

Other PUAs joined a seduction conference we hosted in Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Do I need to be a newsletter subscriber in order to buy the book Confidently Dating Women™?

No, you can buy the book Confidently Dating Women™ from several well-known online stores such as Amazon and Google Play Books. However, when you have not enlisted yourself on this website we won't keep in touch with you and you'll miss out on the latest updates and insights on how to get better with women. Also, we've created a few private groups for like-minded men like you that you can only join after having subscribed to the free e-mail newsletter. And of course we send any discounts to our training programs or early announcements only to our e-mail list subscribers…

Can I already buy the book Confidently Dating Women™?

Yes, the Confidently Dating Women™ can be ordered on Amazon and Google Play Books. It is for sale in limited copy from February 14th, 2025 (Valentine's Day) onward. This is because I want to be able to respond to any questions you guys have and because my time is limited I cannot have lots of men buy the book and then raise questions. Quality over quantity. Soon we will make the book available also on other popular book stores.