1-on-1 Personalized Dating Advice for Western Men Aged 25 and over that want to Get Good with Meeting Women Everywhere for a Romantic Relationship that includes Sex
Are you a single western man over the age of 25 years old and would you like to have personal guidance on how to have women chase you for having a non-monogamous relationship that includes sex?
Do you struggle with any of the following limiting beliefs about dating women?
Dear male friend,
If you recognize yourself in one of these statements, keep reading on:
Are you afraid of showing sexual interest in a girl or escalating to sex?
Do you experience anxiety when wanting to approach that hot, younger woman you've spotted?
Do you think you are not good enough a man yet to be of any interest to meeting the kind of ladies you fancy?
Is social pressure and what others might think of you
Are you doubting to make a move on a woman because you fear being rejected?
Do you believe that only men with lots of money, a superb body physique and with worldwide fame can get laid?
Are you feeling you lack the self confidence to talk to women you find attractive?
Do you think you are too old to date much younger women of legal age for a non-monogamous romantic relationship that includes sex?
Are you sabotaging yourself when you get along well with a woman, but then suddenly find yourself freak out and run away from a great opportunity to get laid?
Do you feel you're great at your work and career, but feel like a pushover/walkover when it comes to being able to date women?
If so, then you likely don't need much more dating techniques to become good with women.
Instead, what you really need to fix right now are your subconscious limiting beliefs!
The problem you have is not in learning advanced dating techniques but in reprogramming your mind for success with dating women
There's a gazillion of techniques to get women to like you and want to have sex with you.
Hundreds of 'Pick Up Artists' (PUAs) will tell you that their specific technique will be the absolute holy grail trick to get women to sleep with you.
But the truth of the matter is that - apart from a set of foundational approaches to meeting and dating women - what you really need is a personalized take on meeting and dating the women that you fancy.
Each and every heterosexual man of us was born with a dick and a craving to meet and fuck women once reaching puberty and adolescence.
But besides that, we all have our own specific upbringing, our own specific environment where we operate in daily.
Don't get me wrong.
Tips and tricks from the experts will help you optimize your dating and sex life for sure.
After some conscious practice of a new trick, gimmick or skill you may even start to feel like this trick has become your copy of your teacher.
What you may be looking for instead is a ground breaking fundament inner improvement in yourself.
And that means:
The way you think, and what you feel and believe.
Your upbringing by your parents, your religion, your school, the country you live in, your male buddies, and even the sexual experiences you've had so far with women, all shape your current belief on how you should be doing 'dating' successfully.
However, many of those exterior forces consciously or unconsciously try to reprogram, suppress or kill your success with women.
Turning you into an obedient, no-questions-asked, beta male.
Good for society, and good for public order, but not for your sex life.
And that's the great thing as well!
As you can reprogram your beliefs, you'll also be able to change your destiny from being the perfect beta-male to becoming a true alpha-male that is naturally good with women.
The beauty of reprogramming your beliefs and convictions, is that your anxiety will start to go away as you become more authentic to yourself.
You'll be able to discover the ways and methods for you, applicable for your life, that will consistently generate you the success with the women you fancy.
You won't have to punish yourself again for 'having done the technique from this specific guru wrong, and thereby lost your chances with this one girl'.
It is so that I can teach you the basic techniques of becoming confident in dating women, using simple and straightforward successful approaches to meeting women everywhere in your daily life.
These are the common techniques and discoveries me and my other dating coaching friends have utilized to get laid without having to lie or cheat or have a bunch of drama.
I find that most men are able to understand and practice the material discussed in my book Confidently Dating Women™.
But with some men that practice the dating advice from the Confidently Dating Women™ book, we notice that as soon as they get closer to becoming better at meeting, dating, seducing and sleeping with women, they start to freak out and abort mission.
Her meaty runway tunnel of love is well lit, cleared from any obstacles, and ready to smoothly take in that strong incoming long and big plane of yours, so to say, but getting to fuck as the touch-down would mean success… and then your self-sabotaging beliefs start kicking in and aborting your mission to land her.
Only to have to exclaim in utter frustration after that:
"What's wrong with me?
Why can't I just have normal and easy sex with women like so many other men seem to have?"
It is, my friend, because you haven't dealt with your subconscious limiting beliefs and convictions.
Beliefs and convictions that may originate from trauma earlier in your life:
A woman that started freaking out and making a lot of social fuzz (bad mouthing about you) once you exposed to her your interest in wanting to fuck her.
Result:
You started to feel shame and guilt for expressing yourself sexually with a women.
And as a coping mechanism, now your subconscious mind ejects you from any situation that leads to having a fuck.
Your mom may have taught you that you should always be nice to women and find ways to please them.
Result:
Whenever you want something for your own pleasure, you start to feel uneasy.
And when your primal alpha male masculinity pops up when you're with a woman - masculine energy with both its bright and its raw dark side of ravage - you'll feel the need to suppress that and turn beta-boy again.
Social media and mass media may have imprinted into your subconscious brain that you need to have money, fame and a body-builder physique first before chicks will start to notice you.
Result:
You feel extremely pressured and incapable of being able to talk to any woman, especially woman who are hot, young and beautiful, because you unnecessarily disqualify yourself in your mind upfront already.
Even when you had the 'golden method' of winning over any chick, you'd still not feel like you are the prize but put her on a pedestal in hopes she will suddenly like you.
Online dating apps give you the perception of having a chance with loads of hot women lining up to want to meet you, but in reality hot women are not on those apps and if they are then statistically the apps make sure you don't match with them so you keep paying for their app.
Result:
You start to wrongly belief there are no women at all that would notice you and would be interested in meeting you.
So you don't even try any more in real life, feeling like an incel, a man who will have to live a life without any women or sex.
This is so wrong and useless belief to have!
There are actually loads of women out there that want to jump on your lap and start riding you.
And there are many more reasons you're not even consciously aware of that prevent you from having the women-and-sex life you so much desire.
Choosing for a personalized dating coaching program that focusses also on reprogramming your mental obstacles, will result in you having a solution to get rid of self-sabotage with dating women.
The cute little benefit of attacking your bad subconscious mental programming head-on with a dating coach experienced in mind-training is that the change happens quickly and easily.
And from that moment onward you don't have to think much about it any more.
Because the bad programming has been removed and dealt with in your mind.
There is now all the mental space and opportunity to naturally attract women in your daily life in the way that would best suit you and your lifestyle.
The change has become part of the inner you.
Instead of that we try to decorate your inner you with some external tricks that may work for others, but not necessarily for you.
How choosing a dating coach from Confidently Dating Women™ helps you naturally get good with meeting women for sexual relationships
We have been there as well, bro.
I'm sorry to have to confess you this, but…
I remember a time in my life that I really thought that having sex was bad for a man and for society.
I really started believing that.
Can you imagine that?
Well, perhaps for yourself right now; but from a dating coach like me?
Exactly!
Put on top of that several other sensual and sexual traumas I carried around with me from the past, plus the slow shift of the Western world towards putting women on pedestals and shaming men with psychological warfare called 'toxic masculinity' and BOOM!
GAME OVER DUDE.
When a miracle happened (and sometimes they did) and a chick I met would actually invite me over to her place, undress herself slowly and seductively, and then thrust her naked cunt ass onto my lap, I'd still be like:
"Nah, this is isn't happening!
This is NOT good!
Need to abort and get the hell out of here!"
While my dick was physically pointing the right direction (towards her big juicy ass), I was already in my mind putting on my shoes and preparing for a Marathon sprint back home.
Not until I found some good dating coaches and until I worked with a few hypnotic experts to fix my subconscious self-sabotaging mental programming, I was able to actually start getting laid easily and naturally with women.
And not having a problem about having great sex any more.
Since then I am very enthusiastic about combining mental reprogramming with dating advice.
When I started talking about these kind of incidents I had before, more and more men like you would agree and nod.
They would start telling me also their limiting beliefs and unprocessed traumas from the past, that kept them boys, not men, in the area of dating.
For sure, these men could be very well off business men, and very highly respected professionals in their occupation, but when it came to the topic of women… their experience and results where completely lacking, because of conscious or unconscious self-sabotage patterns.
However, as you were born a heterosexual man, and you fancy hot women, you have in you already everything you need to get laid with many women of your desire.
To help you fix your blind-spot in personal growth, working 1-on-1 with a dating coach that is also a mind-training expert will help you overcome that hidden obstacle.
If you try to do that all by yourself, it will take you a lot of personal effort and consistent pushing your limits, before you'd see any result with women.
Also, as the dating game generally comes with little or no feedback, you won't be learning nor discovering that it is actually one of those subconscious limiting beliefs that needs fixing.
Not some stupid opening line, pickup sentence or peace of clothing your are wearing, but a limiting belief or hidden trauma that destroyed your chances with getting laid with that particular babe.
This is how dating coaching that includes mind-training works for you
Experience the benefit of getting coached personally on your approach to meeting and dating women anywhere for a romantic relationship that includes sex, combined with the strong power of permanent and positive mental reprogramming for primal masculinity.
The setup of a typical 1-on-1 coaching program is aligned with the content of the book Confidently Dating Women™, and is as follows:
Ground-Zero
We start with so-called 'ground-zero' exercise.
This is some pre-work you have to do, exercises to be executed and completed by you before our first live coaching session.
It also involves a clear statement from you about what areas you need help with the dating.
5 Live (Online) Coaching Sessions
Followed by a series of 5 live coaching sessions of about 1 hour each.
Depending on the remote or fly-in option, with a few days or about a week between each session to apply and experience in practice the changes in your dating life.
The aim of the live coaching sessions is to help you get the mental and physical foundations in place for getting more women into your life.
At the end of the sessions you can expect to be much more self reliant and confident when it comes to meeting and dating women for a relationship that includes sex.
My goal with the coaching sessions is that we get rid of the main obstacles to your dating success and that we hone in into your best and most attractive traits and authentic masculine features.
So that you can own for yourself the dating life that you desire, without having to rely on tricks, gimmicks or another stockpile of seminars and bootcamps etc. to attend.
You'll need to block your calendar for minimum of 1.5 hour though.
This way, you have about 15 minutes in advanced to relax and prepare for the session.
And also you have some time for if the session extends with up to 30 minutes.
After the session you'll still want to take a moment for yourself to wrap up and relax a bit (because each session can be pretty mentally intense).
Evaluation Call
We'll have a brief evaluation call after ~90 days of program completion.
We can discuss some last minute tips and tweaks to how your newly learned skill of dating and attracting women is working.
We'll have these sessions over a Google Meet, Zoom or Whatsapp video call.
There are some basic practicalities for effective remote coaching, but we'll explain them in the intake call.
Don't wait too long before inquiring about a free intake call.
Because the number of seats for exclusive 1-on-1 remote or fly-in dating coaching including mind-training is very limited.
Typically no more than a few men can be in the program each quarter.
Session #1 Contents (click to show/hide)
The first out of five sessions will give you:
Declaration of commitment to your improvement
A first draft of your personal seduction plan
Standard Schedule for Session #1
Topic
Exercise
Commitment to an improved sex life
The starting point of your fast track journey to becoming successful in attracting, dating and having a relationship that includes sex with hot women is your commitment to take your sex and dating life seriously.
Mentally, men can forget to pay attention that they need to have a proper sex life, and allocate time and resources to that part of their life.
It is not the first time we coached a virgin man in his late 40's, who didn't get laid until now simply because he didn't prioritize his sex and dating life.
In this session you'll change your attitude on your dating life and seriously commit to burn your excuses for not going for what you want with women, romance and sex.
Your dating game plan
The unique part on the coaching sessions that you will definitely take home is the construction and planning out of your own dating game plan.
We'll look together on how for you as a person, as someone with your background and desires for the future, the dating game plan will be optimally customize.
Although our focus in this program is on meeting women everywhere, this game plan may also include for example online dating apps.
But the main point in this exercise is that we draft your personal seduction plan.
Session #2 Contents (click to show/hide)
The second out of five sessions will give you:
An idea of what you must have really believed
A brief profile of how you want to genuinely be
Standard Schedule for Session #2
Topic
Exercise
Personal identity revelations
Now we are going to dive deep into your subconscious mind to discover what is your true personal identity.
From statements like "I am…" we'll transgress to "I do…".
This experience is particularly useful as you'll discover that the way you have been behaving and believing up to now, might just as well be a well-rehearsed con-job.
You might have been pretending to be someone else all along, and that is exactly what we want to get rid of to find your authentic masculine self.
You'll get an insight into the blueprint you have been following thus far.
And get a first hunch on points that you might want to change, knowing what you now know about what parts were really yours and what parts were just false beliefs and convictions.
Your profile & hers
Every man is a bit different and has unique traits that are attractive to the women he fancies.
We'll draw up a sketch profile together that you will use in your everyday dating life.
You may also use this profile for filling your online dating app profiles (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, etc.), your social media presence (Instagram, Facebook, etc.) and your offline lifestyle (think wardrobe, housing, activities, etc.).
The trick is that you won't become a copy of us dating coaches but instead that we reveal what makes you an unique catch for women, based on what potential you already have within you, so that you will fully authentically own your improved presence.
Session #3 Contents (click to show/hide)
The third out of five sessions will give you:
Removal of some limiting beliefs and self-sabotage triggers
Unapologetically speaking up for your wants and needs as a man
Standard Schedule for Session #3
Topic
Exercise
Healing the past and breaking free from the inner boy
The root problem for most guys is that in their mind they are still thinking like a dependent boy instead of a self-reliant man.
We'll heal aspects from your past thinking and beliefs, such as that you may believe that you have to impress women or not upset women if you want to get laid.
Inner convictions that are boyish also block your success with women, so we'll help you mentally break free from those no longer useful thought patterns.
Rediscovering your primal masculinity (become attractive to women again)
The other part of healing is more practical.
You'll examine your primal masculinity that may have been hidden behind many layers of societal conditioning.
No longer you'll be a 'Nice Guy', but instead you'll be a man that is back in touch with his Balls of Steel and Big Dick energy.
This is about embracing that you are a man with masculine desires.
Plus that as a man you need to get laid to stay sane and healthy.
That's what you biology has been trying to tell you all along.
Session #4 Contents (click to show/hide)
The fourth out of five sessions will give you:
Full understanding of what achieving your next big goal with dating feels like
Switch from passiveness and dependency in meeting women, to active and assertive guidance from first approach to bedroom intimacy
Standard Schedule for Session #4
Topic
Exercise
Your future today
Time to experience how to living your ideal romantic and sex life with the right women will feel like.
You'll learn to embody and then recognize the cues for selecting the right women and leading them to your bedroom with confidence and ease - as you already walked that path in mind, you'll know and own exactly what to do at every step in the seduction process.
No longer may you experience approach anxiety, because that feeling may have been replaced by now by the positive expectation of have hot and steamy sex with that woman (and she'll love you for being that kind of man).
Leading women sexually
We find that some guys struggle with taking initiative in leading the way towards sex with the women they want to fuck.
However, women generally like to be led on an adventure where they can discover and explore their sex and erotic desires.
This part of the sessions focusses on how you can be that great guy fulfilling the role of the leader she is comfortable with to surrender to.
Session #5 Contents (click to show/hide)
The fifth and final out of five sessions will give you:
List of dating successes thus far, and successes you expect in near future
Bucket list of erotic fantasies and ideas on how to materialize them
Standard Schedule for Session #5
Topic
Exercise
Success cycle mastery
You'll experience owning your success with women with mental reprogramming techniques that give you a healthy addiction to become more strong, persistent and reliable on getting the results you want with women in your life.
Most men have been trained to hone into their failures, and think about "What did I do wrong?"
But that is not a helpful question to answer.
Instead, in this session we'll reiterate on all the things you are doing right and correctly.
So that we program your subconscious mind for repeated and consistent success.
Helping you to find more approaches that work and get you what you want.
And that will feel darn good too.
Making your erotic fantasies real
Our personal favorite part for the students that completed the coaching program is helping you make your erotic fantasies real.
Whether that's having threesomes or foursomes, exploring kinky stuff like ropes and bondage, having sex in odd places, or having a chick to bang in every other city…
Your dreams can be made real.
And here are some tools for achieving that.
Focus on changing your subconscious mind creates lasting better results (you can't un-think breakthrough insights)
The cool thing about help you fix your subconscious limiting beliefs is that all changes achieved will be permanently benefiting you.
As the saying goes, you can't un-think thoughts, once you have had a breakthrough insight.
Try to unlearn something you realized before… an AHA! moment… and you'll find that you simply can't!
The goal of the whole program is to make you self-reliant on achieving success with meeting and dating women for a romantic relationship that includes sex.
You're a smart and capable person.
You already have one or two areas in your life where you are doing quite well.
With regard to women, all you need is to remove the limiting beliefs and self-sabotaging behaviors, and most of you men are already well off doing great with seducing chicks.
Especially when you tie your approach to dating to your personality and already existing masculine strengths.
The tips from our dating guide will help you get to understand the technicalities of dating women.
Because women are different from men when it comes to dating.
But these concepts are easy to understand and quickly to learn for most men.
Once you focus on start improving your subconscious mental programming, you will begin to notice that getting good with women unfolds as a simple, natural consequence of that.
That's why I have the 100% conviction that once you change your thinking, you will change your life - for good!
However… and that is the catch… a part of your thinking is not in the conscious, logical, active part of your mind.
Instead, strong beliefs and standard behaviors are embedded in the subconscious part of your mind.
They are more difficult to get to and to change, unless you have learned how to access and reprogramming your subconscious mind using trance and hypnotic technique.
As a master erotic hypnotist and also a mind-trainer for entrepreneurs and business owners, changing your subconscious held beliefs and fixing any deep-hidden traumas from the past is my specialization!
Rather than offering the regular hypnotherapy like helping people to quit smoking or stop consuming alcohol, I'd rather focus on helping men with their most important things in life:
Get to more sex fast, easily and consistently by fixing their sensual and sexual dysfunctional beliefs.
Earn more money quickly, with as simple as possible business and personal development mind-training techniques.
Wouldn't you rather be 'addicted' to having success with women and with making money, than to be addicted to smoking and drinking unhealthy stuff?!?
You'd bet!
Where with hypnotherapy, clients would go from smoker to non-smokers, and from alcohol-addicts to sober persons, in our dating coaching that includes mind-training men go from beta boy to alpha male.
If you're not yet ready for personalized coaching, then start with these other options first
Making the choice now to get your dating life professionally fixed by a dating coach that is also an expert mind-trainer may be the very best choice for you to make right now.
But you may also reading this and not be ready yet to confront your mental fears now.
That's fine.
I can totally understand.
For those of you who feel they need a bit of more basic reassurance, I've developed the following ways to prepare yourself to be ready to reach out and book an intake for 1-on-1 dating coaching.
Read the book Confidently Dating Women™ first
In the book Confidently Dating Women™ you'll read both about fixing your mental programming and also the practical ways to meet, date, seduce and have sex with women you meet in your everyday life.
Find yourself spontaneously ordering that book as a safe and comfortable introduction to getting good with women.
Confidently Dating Women™ - Fully Revised 18th Anniversary Edition
Once you've read the book Confidently Dating Women™, and done some of the exercises, and you feel you still could need some 1-on-1 help, then simply go back here and plan your free intake for 1-on-1 dating coaching.
Especially when you started practising the material in your own life, and for some reason you seem to not get it work for you, then you definitely want to get in contact with us.
Because it might very well be that you still have a known (or unknown) subconscious limiting belief or unprocessed primal masculinity trauma that is sabotaging your success with it.
Join one of the Confidently Dating Women™ group calls
Follow Confidently Dating Women™ on Instagram and Facebook to get notified when the next group-call is planned.
On these group calls I'll live broadcast a topic, and you can start raising questions about that topic which I will answer generally.
Because these are group calls, me and the optional other dating coaches in that vlog won't be able to give you a fully personalized answer, but we will be able to give you some common waypoints on how to solve your problem and obstacles with meeting and dating women everywhere.
Wait for an infield Confidently Dating Women™ group workshop
Due to group size, these workshop I offer in collaboration with other professional male dating coaches from all over the world.
This way, there may be a group workshop coming up in your continent and in or near your country.
In the past we've held these workshops in The Netherlands, Belgium, Poland, Czech-Republic, Bulgaria, Latvia, Serbia, and also outside Europe such as Florida (United States), Argentina (South America), to name a few.
Watch a few videos on the specific topics that you want a bit guidance upon.
Like the videos that give you some insight already.
Feel free to raise a generic question as a comment on the related video.
For more personal questions please send a DM.
Schedule now your free intake call for 1-on-1 remote or fly-in dating coaching
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The intake call will last about 15 to 30 minutes and is completely without any obligation.
The call will be held via Google Meet, Zoom or Whatsapp.
Note that the number of 1-on-1 coaching clients is very limited and exclusive.
Generally I only have 1 or 2 seats left for most months in the year.
By the way:
If you own a business or when you are self-employed, the 1-on-1 coaching program can possibly also be booked as a business expense.
Inquire for more details during our intake call.
See you on the other side!
Your bro friend and dating coach for Western single men over 25,
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