Guys, if you are using online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc. and you have not yet fixed your profile to be in the top 4% of men, you can forget about having any consistent luck in getting matches and dates.
Let's improve your profile such that you will get a nice inflow of leads via dating apps and websites, next to your cold approach day-game efforts to meet and flirt with local hot attractive women nearby.
Get professionally looking pictures for your online dating profile.
Carefully curate which pictures and reels you use for the female gaze.
Write a compelling short bio that compels a flirty response from her.
Get your first likes from hot and attractive local women nearby you.
Know how to chat up with your matches to get to actual dates fast and easy.
If you don't get good result it is essential to hire this specific dating coach.
The reason why you suck at online dating apps and websites
Hey there,
My name is PlayMale, and if you are like I was some time ago then you just simply suck at online dating.
I mean, day-game approaching is my primary source for meeting new women that I fancy.
I came, I saw, and I seduced.
But when you would open my online dating apps you would just see empty lists:
No likes.
No matches.
Chats going nowhere.
I only got useless responses from catfishes, sex workers trying to sell you their OnlyFans accounts, women residing in extremely poor remote countries, and romance scammers who are just after stealing your money.
Sounds familiar to you?
How would you initiate the conversation with a match like this on your online dating app?
Actually, I tried them all, and all to no avail:
From Tinder,
to Bumble,
to Hinge,
Breeze,
to even niche dating apps focussing on gaming, hobbies, sports, whatever.
Installed these popular online dating apps, swiped for a year, got no results, deleted them.
You could say online dating just became pointless and useless for me.
Not ever gonna work for me, I thought.
Probably you, as a Western single man over the age of 25, have had a similar experience.
Knowing that only 1.8% of men get a match on a swipe (that's less than 1 in 50 women you like), while women get over 55% chance of a match on a swipe…
And knowing that those men that do get serious matches are generally only again 2% of the top-tier man on the app…
…Any guy's chances of being successful with online dating with his current profile turns out to be one-in-a-gazillion never-gonna-happen.
Again, bro, why would you bother with entering the slaughter house called online dating apps?
When you know you will probably get zero chances of any success?
When a top-tier bro helps you out with fixing your online dating profile
But recently, one of my best friends got very good with meeting women online.
So we hang out for a while and looked into my profile together.
It was painful to realize that my online dating profile just sucked.
My male friend carefully showed me as a man how to use online dating correctly to attract loads of women in my like & match list.
The result?
A complete make-over of the way I use online dating apps in combination with my offline dating skills.
I'm now having instant dates with cute women that like my online profile; from online swipe to meeting her for real within 20 minutes.
I didn't have to go anywhere else than where I was already standing; she just came over from her house to me!
So know this:
You are already a great and awesome dude to date, but without a killer-effective dating profile…
You are wasting your time swiping women's profiles that will never see your profile.
The women that do see your profile don't like it and discard it almost instantly.
You are destroying your chances further by sending the same boring chat messages to her, after which she will ghost you immediately.
You will be only matching with desperate, ugly, unattractive, crazy or otherwise far from ideal women - that is, if you get any matches at all.
Meanwhile, 2% of the dudes on the app that are as awesome and cool as you in real life, but have a way better tweaked online dating profile, are currently getting all your dream girl women.
Yeah, I feel you.
Fierce competition, practical zero chances of success with dating.
That sucks big time!
Hence, I always enjoyed cold-approaching women during the day and evening much more, because there I have zero competition and instant results.
However, not having a killer-effective dating profile yet is something that can be fixed.
Since I learned the tricks and tips to boost my dating app profile appearance in the correct way, I am now also getting a nice stream of new women via online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc.
Also matching with women much younger than me (I'm a man over 40, hooking up with women in their 20's).
Transform your online dating strategy today with our guidance
If you want to turn your online dating profile from a losing strategy into a consistent lottery-winning machine that drives you numerous new attractive women to meet up with, read on.
When approaching women in real life (day-game), my dating coaching works killer because of the mindset change and the behavioral improvements right then and there on the spot when you see her and start chatting with her.
Meanwhile, due to the fierce competition and saturation of online dating, you will need to overcome the disadvantage of not being able to pro-actively initiate conversations with new women (without first requiring to have a match).
And that obstacle, my friend, can be overcome simply by getting your online dating profile pimped to the extreme of what actually works in swipe-land.
From being able to proactively walk up to any women (a.k.a. doing 'sales'), with online dating, you will need to be able to market yourself digitally (a.k.a. doing 'advertising') to get leads.
Also, if you are like me, you want those results quick, fast, and easy.
Without having to be swiping on the apps all day.
I mean, I have businesses to run, hobbies to do, work to complete, investments to manage and travels to make, so my time is limited and I don't want to waste it on ineffective approaches or with women that just look for attention or Instagram followers.
You don't want women to ruin your success in other areas of your life.
The ladies will need to be an addition to your existing lifestyle.
My typical workday now looks like this:
Work a few undisturbed hours in the morning on my businesses and projects.
Hit the gym around noon, do a few swipes on the apps during the short rest breaks.
Make a few calls and send some updates related to business meetings.
While preparing my late-lunch, chat up a few ladies in my match list, while planning a date for the late afternoon or early evening with one of my earlier female contacts.
Visit some event I wanted to go to anyways (do some cold-approaches too).
Meet up with a lady I met on online or via cold-approach; which typically leads to sex within an hour or so.
Later that evening and after dinner/sex - I make a walk around town or the city, go do some dancing (do some warm-approaches too), and handle my new likes and matches in the dating apps.
Close off the evening with brief planning for the next day(s) and reading in my bed before going to sleep.
The weekends are reserved for my other hobbies, and for meeting women that I have slept with at least twice (women that can stay over for the night).
And, if you are still like me, you might not be the most handsome or attractive man by default in your cohort/age group year.
I can be considered a minority man, with my bald face, red beard, pale skin and skinny posture, weird hobbies, and lacking the social skills of the common guy.
For online dating - and also for day-game - you can turn your minority aspect into an advantage, when you know how to position yourself well and get your online dating profile perfected.
If you're already exceptional in other areas of your life, but not with women, that is awesome!
Because when you are already a winner in those other areas, becoming a winner with women will just be a matter of making a few fixes and doing a few tweaks on your approach, and you'll be set for life.
So whatever your excuse, especially because of your excuse, you can win with dating hot and attractive women to you online as well… once we fixed your profile and presentation once and for all, and have set you up with your personal winning strategy!
Have a first in-person meeting (date) that you are able to steer and direct well for your intention for romance and sex.
Understand how to transition easily towards sex at your or her place.
We coach you until you get at least 10 dates with women that you find attractive.
A team of 4 (four!) different dating coaches actively support you in this program.
Me, PlayMale, is one of those 4 coaches in the team for online dating.
The coaching happens online in group calls (maximum of about 12 men, including you).
And via chat and e-mail; for example for gauging and steering the conversation you are having with your current date.
Thus a combination of scheduled group workshops that you attend online, individual training and direct feedback from our dating coaches on specific interactions and moments.
For more information and checking your eligibility to participate in the exclusive 6-month training program, please fill in the form below and mention what you want to learn in the comments.
Unfortunately, it is not possible to directly order the online dating coaching program.
Instead, you will need to be on our free 15-minute discovery call to see if you would be a fit for this program.
Our student success guy, Ravi, will do that call with you.
But you don't have to decide now to ask for dedicated dating coaching help.
You can just decide to leave your details in the free form below to get started all by yourself with the generic training material we provide via our newsletter channel.
When you get started and are subscribed to our closed group e-mail list, it is without cost for you and without any obligation.
It will give you access to FREE tips and tricks for both online dating and day-game (cold approach), the ability to start asking questions to our dating coaches, and eligibility calls for our dating transformation programs for Western single men of 25 years and older.
We use a private e-mail list, because we can't put all our relevant content with proven working techniques, approaches and methods online.
If we would publish on the web detailed information how to get laid as a man from online dating apps, the search engines and socials and such will start blocking our content and website.
Is there any guarantee that I will get actual dates from online dating apps?
Yes,
The 6 month program we offer in the combined setup of 4 dating coaches (each with their own specialization) comes with the guarantee that you will have at least 10 dates with women you actually want.
If you don't get at least 10 dates like that, we will keep coaching you for free until you do.
The program is not difficult, and requires you to follow through the program and execute as per your coaches instructions.
So if we say "Get yourself a picture like this, wearing that specific clothing you have and in that kind of environment" then please do so.
We can't guarantee you that you will get laid.
Because then we would be selling a sex-service, that would come with all kinds of legal regulations, which we don't want to get involved with.
But from our experience the likelihood for you getting laid and having sex with the women you fancy and go on date with using our method will be very high.
Past clients had success with it (including sleeping with some of the women), so you will be able to do as well when you put in the effort.
With what dating apps does the profile improvement work?
For sure we can help you pimp your profile on apps like Tinder™, Bumble™, Hinge™ or Facebook Dating™.
But there are many more online dating apps and personals websites for which our method works.
We focus on the online dating apps that aim for romantic relationships (that also include sex).
These apps can also have options for expressing that your are looking for 'something casual' or 'hookups'.
So don't worry if you're not in a life stage of finding your dream partner.
We do not focus on sex dating or erotic apps.
For example, although PlayMale as a Fetlife account for meeting other kinksters, that is not the focus of our program.
Not only a lot of sex dating and erotic apps are scams, there are also a lot of women on these specific apps for finding customers for their OnlyFans™ account or other paid services.
Instead, our clientele consists of guys like you that are looking for romantic relationships with women, that also includes having sex.
Will I be coached by PlayMale only for my online dating profile improvements?
No,
For the improvements of your online dating profile PlayMale works together with 3 other highly specialized coaches.
So you'll get your approach to online dating revamped by the experience and knowledge of 4 awesome guys:
A dating coach specialized in online dating profile tweaking, so that you will get more likes and for less effort.
Another dating coach specialized in conversation skills for correctly chatting with and talking to your matches.
A consistency coach that ensures that you keep following through with your online dating goals.
Me, PlayMale, for the subconscious mind training and mental reprogramming part, so that you stop sabotaging yourself for online dating as well.
This way we can give you the guarantee that you will have at least 10 dates with women you actually want, when you actively participate in our 6 month coaching program.
What kind of dating program for men is this?
Our Confidently Dating Women™ method for men is about meeting women in your everyday life.
Think about meeting her at the grocery store, shopping mall, during your lunch break at work, while hanging out with friends at an event, practising some sports or hobby you enjoy, or when taking a walk in the park.
So it is mostly what is commonly called 'day-game' or 'street-game'.
You don't need to go out deep into the night (so called club-game).
Going out every other night may have been fine when you were 20 years old, but as you reach your thirties, forties or fifties you can better spend your energy elsewhere.
We enhance your lead list of fresh new pussy from day-game with a bit of online dating (from online dating apps such as Tinder and Bumble) and social circle game (meeting women through mutual acquaintances and at get-togethers with friends).
For what age of men is this dating program meant?
We have used our dating method for men from as young as 20 years old to 65 years old.
On average our clients are in their late twenties to early fifties.
The program works especially well for guys and men who have had a committed monogamous relationship before and want to switch to a more free sex and dating lifestyle.
And for guys who don't have a lot of time to spend:
We're all busy working on our mission as the primary goal; women come secondary to us.
Most clients live already on their own, have a stable or growing income and have their basic necessities met (food, shelter etc.).
If you still live with your parents, then first move out and only then come back to us.
Our oldest client before and after the dating coaching (and landing in bed with a woman half his age)
Does this dating method work outside The Netherlands (e.g. does it work also in my country?
Yes, this works in most western countries (Europe, United States, Canada, Australia) and probably a lot of other culture countries as well.
In The Netherlands most women are sober and don't need a man to live very well, so the training grounds are here more difficult than some other countries where women are much more feminine and appreciative of men.
The essence of the Confidently Dating Women™ program is to start talking to women you meet in your everyday roundabouts.
In your street, at the shopping mall, while waiting for the bus, at the airport, during lunch break, at a social event or festival etc.
Based on your locality it may mean that you have to travel a bit more (in The Netherlands we live quite dense so everything is within short-distance).
We have applied the method before in our dating tours to for example Miami, Prague, Sofia, Belgrade, Krakow and Buenos Aires, which proves that the dating method also works outside The Netherlands.
Our main limitation abroad was the language barrier; because we speak Dutch and English, but if you can speak Spanish for example a whole additional world of ladies open up to you.
And in case we don't speak the local language then body language is our greatest friend to get laid haha.
There are a few oppressive countries where dating, discussing sex and the practice ethical non-monogamy is restricted or forbidden.
So always check your local law.
We don't promote our work in those countries.
Our best advice for when you're living in any of those sexually highly restricted countries is to move to a more favorable other country.
A client from Belgium now is able to speak to random women on the street for dating
Do I have to do anything that is not legal?
No, our approach works perfectly fine within the legal boundaries of the law.
In most if not all western countries it is perfectly fine to start talking to random women.
In The Netherlands a group (probably composed of feminists and simps) tried to pass a law that would penalize men to say certain things to women.
But that law had to be retracted because it violated the law of free speech.
We teach a method without lying or deceit, and we also don't pay for the women either.
It is all based on mutual consent and of course adhering to any age-of-consent laws.
We'll guide you a bit on which women are most safe to approach without having dangers of repercussions (e.g. that hot police woman on duty that thinks you were harassing her).
There are a few oppressive countries where dating, discussing sex and the practice ethical non-monogamy is restricted or forbidden.
So always check your local law.
We don't promote our work in those countries.
Our best advice for when you're living in any of those sexually highly restricted countries is to move to a more favorable other country.
Who is PlayMale?
PlayMale is my pen name within the sex dating and erotic play realm.
I am active in the scene of day/street game, sensual play (including mind-play) and erotic parties.
As a master erotic hypnotist I also conduct research on the topic of female orgasms on command.
Since 2004 I've been involved in the so-called 'seduction-community' and 'pick-up artist' (PUA) scene.
Together with 2 other bad-ass bros from The Netherlands we founded a dating coaching company and quickly became nationally known.
We had a very successful no-nonsense dating coaching business that helped thousands of men become good with getting laid.
That dating advice company is now long gone, and I've been mostly working on very, very expensive business consultancy projects for big corporations since.
But I held interest and involvement in self-development and in meeting, dating and having sex with women I find attractive.
After a traditional long term relationship I am redesigning my life for freedom; which includes playful freedom with dating and sleeping with women.
In the old days we used to hang out with a lot of famous Pick Up Artists (PUA's).
Some of them are still quite active in the scene; you may know about them because we shared time in workshops and collaborations; since then they have developed their endeavors further.
We won't mention names here but we'll show you some pictures after you've signed up for the e-mail insiders newsletter.
Feel free to check out who these other master seducers are and decide for yourself which style fits best (no pun intended).
Anyway we are now more moving towards associating and hanging out with sensual, sexual and erotic play women.
I don't know about you but I'd rather hang out with a group of horny women than a bunch of male wingmen.
Other PUAs joined a seduction conference we hosted in Amsterdam, The Netherlands
Do I need to be a newsletter subscriber in order to buy the book Confidently Dating Women™?
No, you can buy the book Confidently Dating Women™ from several well-known online stores such as Amazon and Google Play Books.
However, when you have not enlisted yourself on this website we won't keep in touch with you and you'll miss out on the latest updates and insights on how to get better with women.
Also, we've created a few private groups for like-minded men like you that you can only join after having subscribed to the free e-mail newsletter.
And of course we send any discounts to our training programs or early announcements only to our e-mail list subscribers…
Can I already buy the book Confidently Dating Women™?
Yes, the Confidently Dating Women™ can be ordered on Amazon and Google Play Books.
It is for sale in limited copy from February 14th, 2025 (Valentine's Day) onward.
This is because I want to be able to respond to any questions you guys have and because my time is limited I cannot have lots of men buy the book and then raise questions.
Quality over quantity.
Soon we will make the book available also on other popular book stores.
My name is PlayMale, and if you are like I was some time ago then you just simply suck at online dating.
