The reason why you suck at online dating apps and websites
Hey there,
My name is PlayMale, and if you are like I was some time ago then you just simply suck at online dating.
I mean, day-game approaching is my primary source for meeting new women that I fancy. But when you would open my online dating apps you would just see empty screens:
No likes.
No matches.
Chats going nowhere.
Only responses from catfishes, sex workers trying to sell you their OnlyFans accounts, women residing in extremely poor remote countries, and romance scammers who are just after stealing your money.
Sounds familiar?
I tried them all to no avail. From Tinder, to Bumble, to Hinge, Breeze, to even niche dating apps focussing on gaming, hobbies, sports, whatever. Installed them, swiped for a year, got no results, deleted them. You could say online dating just became pointless and useless for me. Not ever gonna work for me, I thought.
But recently, one of my best friends got very good with meeting women online. So we hang out for a while and looked into my profile together.
It was painful to realize that my online dating profile just sucked.
Knowing that only 1.8% of men get a match on a swipe, while women get over 55% chance of a match on a swipe. And knowing that those men that do get serious matches are generally only again 2% of the top-tier man on the app. My chances of being successful with online dating with my current profile turned out to be one-in-a-gazillion never-gonna-happen.
But my male friend carefully showed me as a man how to use online dating correctly to attract loads of women in my like & match list.
The result? A complete make-over of the way I use online dating apps in combination with my offline dating skills. I'm now having instant dates with women that like my online profile; from swipe to meeting her for real within 20 minutes, without me having to go anywhere else than where I am already standing!
So know this:
You are already a great and awesome dude to date, but without a killer-effective dating profile…
You are wasting your time swiping women's profiles that will never see your profile.
The women that do see your profile don't like it and discard it almost instantly.
You are destroying your chances further by sending the same boring chat messages to her, after which she will ghost you immediately.
You will be only matching with desperate, ugly, unattractive, crazy or otherwise far from ideal women - that is, if you get any matches at all.
Meanwhile, 2% of the dudes on the app that are as awesome and cool as you in real life, but have a way better tweaked online dating profile, are currently getting all your dream girl women.
Yeah, I feel you. Fierce competition, practical zero chances of success with dating. That sucks big time!
Hence, I always enjoyed cold-approaching women during the day and evening much more, because there I have zero competition and instant results.
But since I learned the tricks and tips to boost my dating app profile appearance in the correct way, I am now also getting a nice stream of new women via online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc.
Also matching with women much younger than me (I'm a man over 40, hooking up with women in their 20's).
If you want to turn your online dating profile from a losing strategy into a consistent lottery-winning machine that drives you numerous new attractive women to meet up with, read on.
When approaching women in real life (day-game), my dating coaching works killer because of the mindset change and the behavioral improvements right then and there on the spot when you see her and start chatting with her. Meanwhile, due to the fierce competition and saturation of online dating, you will need to overcome the disadvantage of not being able to pro-actively initiate conversations with new women (without first requiring to have a match). And that, my friend, can be done simply by getting your online dating profile pimped to the extreme of what actually works in swipe-land.
From being able to proactively walk up to any women (a.k.a. doing 'sales'), with online dating, you will need to be able to market yourself digitally (a.k.a. doing 'advertising') to get leads.
Also, if you are like me, you want those results quick, fast, and easy. Without having to be swiping on the apps all day. I mean, I have businesses to run, hobbies to do, work to complete, investments to manage and travels to make, so my time is limited and I don't want to waste it on ineffective approaches or with women that just look for attention or Instagam followers.
And, if you are still like me, you might not be the most handsome or attractive man by default in your cohort/age group year. I can be considered a minority man, with my bald face, red beard, pale skin and skinny posture, weird hobbies, and lacking the social skills of the common guy.
So whatever your excuse, especially because of your excuse, you can win with dating hot and attractive women to you online as well… once we fixed your profile and presentation once and for all, and have set you up with your personal winning strategy!